My husband’s affair caused me to lose several things. There were physical losses such as. sleep, appetite, and focus. There were also emotional losses like the ability to control my thoughts from obsessing. But those losses were all short lived. It’s the more permanent losses that came through the recovery process that I’m most glad about. And I hope to remain in the loss of these things for a lifetime. I lost the pressure to appear “perfect” to everyone. Facing friends and acquaintances after we told everyone about the affair was awkward at first. But I survived it. Surviving that […]