Betrayed spouses have a lot to say. I know. I had a LOT to say! But there are also many things you want and emotionally need to know from him or her. Even though it would feel so good  to just open your mouth and let all your words and emotions rage on your spouse, and even though you believe to the depths of your soul that he or she needs to hear what you are burning to say, unleashing your fury is a self-defeating approach. Yes, there was a lot I could have said, but I didn’t. When you’re […]