Hurt people hurt people. That’s why it’s so easy to say or do things that you know would hurt your spouse when you’ve found out he or she has been unfaithful. Silence/Withdrawal Protecting yourself from further hurt by retreating to your own little space is a coping habit that many people learn as children. Rather than have a healthy conversation that addresses the issue, many people choose to just avoid the issue altogether. It may be your first response when you discover the affair, but in the end it doesn’t solve anything. It delays healing at best, and at worst, […]